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ASHA LOVES.

I envision our time together as sacred. I accept you in your totality. I am not here to help you deny anything, rather I am here to help you rearrange and get to the center of your energy. In such, your taste for life will doubly be enriched. I crave new experiences and the chance to celebrate life with other out-of-their-minders. I find a new world is born in me with each new encounter I have. What I imagine is that you are in search of an escape from the chaos of the world at present. Let me not compound, nor add to your disconnect. Allow me to show you, simply…You. Sometimes, we just need a mirror.


In honor of our sacred shared time, please do us both the respect of taking the time to understand who I am and what my preferences/boundaries are.

Upon review if you are interested to connect with me, I invite you into my world. Please complete the submission form below. I am unable to respond to inquiries until I have received the necessary verification information.


  • My personal preference caters to exceptional gentlemen who have amassed the age of 35+ years of life/wisdom.
  • I have a strict zero review policy. I am a professional; this is a sphere I enjoy privately as I imagine is the case for you as well. Reviews set dangerous prerequisites of women who hold space for the seeking world, creating unrealistic expectations held by future friends. Not everyone’s energy aligns in the same way. Further, I prefer our sacred time together be just that–sacred.
  • Please review my schedule listed in the menu here on my website before sending email requests for days, times and location possibilities. This will save my time and yours. I keep it updated every month for the month ahead.
  • In a short email, or on the submission form listed below, please share a bit about yourself, including your preferences (keeping them tasteful), so I may better discern if our energies would align. The more you share, the better able I am to fashion an experience unique to what you hope to garner from engagement with me.
  • I share my contact number once verification processes have cleared. I do so to limit phone contact to those who have shown a genuine interest and are ready to secure shared time with me. Unfortunately, I am simply not able to accommodate everyone.
  • Calls are for appointment confirmation and check-in day of upon arrival only. All other inquiries/conversations should be handled via email. I will never call you without having permission or an invitation from you to do so, and ask the same respect in return. My life simply does not allow for me to entertain unending calls/texts and conversations. That is what our shared time together is for.
  • New friend verification is mandatory. As with any other scheduled personal appointment made in life, I must know who you are beforehand. I require two references from reputable/verified ladies for all new friends.
  • Alternatively, I take (and prefer) employment verification. This option is much easier and speeds the process. LinkedIn must be accurate/verifiable.
  • I am unable to accommodate same day appointments for new friends, since verification is necessary and requires a bit of time. Waiting on provider references can hold up the process, so please reach out and give them advance notice so we can all work together expediently. If you are sharing provider references, I will need their emails. I do not make calls in lieu of discretion and respect for their time/privacy.
  • I am happy to provide references to all gentleman who have seen me within the past six months, and have been respectful and kind within our interactions. Please have your provider of interest email me and I will always respond within 24 hours; No phone calls.
  • If you are a return beloved and I am proximal to your location, same day appointments are possible, not promised, if you have checked my calendar and see I am available 🙂 I do require a 3 hour advance notice in these instances.
  • Should you need to cancel any appointment, no harm done. Life happens. However, the next time you schedule with me I will require a 50% non-refundable deposit in advance to secure an appointment. If you are chronically unable to keep appointments, I will not be able to designate time to see you in the future. I live a full life and get an enthusiastic amount of inquiries.
  • Flexible availability in various areas of NC (Greensboro, Chapel Hill, RDU, Charlotte & Winston Salem).
  • There is always a 2 hour minimum to schedule with me in Charlotte, no exceptions. These appointments must be scheduled in advance, and can presently only be accommodated Friday through Sunday.
  • There are dates on my calendar (Friday – Sunday) where I am open to destination requests with a travel time of 2 hours or less one way from the Triad area. These engagements require a 2 hour minimum, advance scheduling, and a 50% offering deposit made no less than 24 hours prior to the scheduled meeting.
  • Weekend scheduling (Friday – Sunday) requires a 1.5 hour+ commitment in Greensboro and 2 hour+ commitment in RDU . These requests must be scheduled in advance.
  • I insist on an exchange of mutual reciprocity and respect within a shared space and moment–minus power dynamics. Although I am honored as a woman to show you all the places where you may have forgotten who you are, I will not compromise my own internal sanctum to do so and am committed to no harm.
  • Of the UTMOST IMPORTANCE: My health, safety and sanity are invaluable. Please do not ask me to endanger or compromise any or all of those, ever.

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